I have been a lurking reader of “kinky” blogs for a long time.  I secretly admire these people who put their lives on display.  I have no idea whether what is posted as “real” life by these bloggers is factual. 

I do know about my own life.  I am married.  I haven’t had sex with my wife in ten years.  Love causes me to do strange things.  I value relationship over orgasm, I treasure the intimacy I have, while longing for sexual intimacy still.   That bond of shared pleasure is indescribably beautiful.  That is why I long for it so.

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