I have been a lurking reader of “kinky” blogs for a long time. I secretly admire these people who put their lives on display. I have no idea whether what is posted as “real” life by these bloggers is factual.
I do know about my own life. I am married. I haven’t had sex with my wife in ten years. Love causes me to do strange things. I value relationship over orgasm, I treasure the intimacy I have, while longing for sexual intimacy still. That bond of shared pleasure is indescribably beautiful. That is why I long for it so.